We don’t think much about it, but riding an elevator can be weirdly personal. You are stuck in a small box with strangers standing awkwardly close.
Most of us pretend to check our phones so as not to make eye contact. It’s only for a few seconds, but the time spent in an elevator can be uncomfortable.
Let’s break down the simple, polite things you can do to make elevator rides more pleasant for everyone, including yourself.
1. Respect the Line
Like most things in life, elevators work better when people take turns. It may not be marked with a sign, but there’s usually a line for the elevator.
If people are waiting outside, don’t slide in to the front as if it’s no big deal. As a matter of queueing etiquette, take your spot and wait for your turn. A little patience goes a long way.
2. Let People Exit First
The universal rule in public commuter services is to empty before reloading. The same goes for elevators. Squeezing in while others are trying to get out slows everything down and creates those awkward shoulder bumps.
When the elevator door opens, take a step to the side and allow those in to exit first. It only takes a few seconds. Plus, it’s one of those small gestures that shows you are thoughtful.
3. Mind the Limit
The elevator’s capacity limit exists for a reason. It’s not just a random number stuck on the wall. Cramming more people into the elevator than it can handle can cause it to move more slowly than usual or stop working altogether.
If it looks full, it’s okay to wait for the next one. You’ll probably have a more comfortable ride anyway. And if you’re moving with heavy items like boxes or luggage, take a moment to check if you’re pushing the limit. Better safe than stuck.
4. Hold the Door for Those Coming in
If someone is rushing towards the elevator and you are already inside, don’t be the person who pretends they didn’t notice. Hold the door or press the ‘door open’ button for them. You will save them the frustrating wait, plus it takes almost no effort on your part.
Use your judgment, of course. If the elevator is already packed, it’s okay to let it close. But when it makes sense, the small gesture can make someone’s already hectic day a little better.
5. Move to the Back
If you are already inside and others are walking in, don’t just stand in the doorway. It blocks the flow, and everyone ends up squeezed. Move to the back so that others can fit in without shuffling awkwardly around you.
6. Shush It
Elevators aren’t the place for full-on conversations and speakerphone calls. Honestly, no one wants to hear about your weekend plans. A quiet ride is a kind ride.
If you are with a friend, keep the chat low or save it for when you are out. And if your phone rings, a quick “I’ll call you back in a sec” is way better than talking over everyone’s heads.
7. Pets and Kids
It’s totally fine to bring little ones and pets along for the ride. But once inside, keep them calm and close. Not everyone in the elevator is a dog (or cat) lover.
Carry your pet or hold their leash short and check that they are not sniffing at anyone. Supervise your kids and make sure they are not pressing all the buttons.
8. Don’t Press Every Button
Speaking of pressing buttons, it would be funny in middle school. But we are in the adult world, and people are in a rush to get to their businesses.
No worries if you accidentally hit the wrong floor; it happens. But try to be mindful and only press what you need. It keeps the ride quicker and a lot less annoying for everyone on board.
9. Exit Quickly
Don’t hold things up when the elevator reaches your floor. Be ready to exit, and don’t start fumbling around while everyone waits.
If you’re at the back, a polite “Excuse me” works just fine. Those in front will gladly shift aside to let you through. And if you’re near the front and see someone behind you trying to get out, take a small step aside to help them pass.
The Stairs Are an Option Too
Using an elevator takes a short time, but when done right, it makes the experience more pleasant for everyone.
And you don’t have to use it every time. If you are going up only two floors, the stairs might be a better choice. It gives you a bit of exercise and frees up the elevator for those who really need it.
